This is by my dear online friend, Sunnely. She is amazing and wonderful. 🙂
Are you love or approval addicted? Most people are. The following checklist will help you to determine your level of love or approval addiction. Heal the anxiety, depression, trauma, low self-esteem, low self-worth, neediness and emotional pain that underlie love and sex addiction. Here underneith in the link you can read more about:
Why porno has become such a popular addiction…
Are you constantly feeling alone and empty inside? Are you often seeking to get love, attention, approval, compassion and connection with others? You might be love-addicted. Discover how to begin healing love-addiction.
Check if YOU need validation from others, those outside yourself – in ordet to feel that you HAVE value?
Care more about upholding your integrity of your true Self –
than about acting out on your need to fill the emptiness and validate your ego with sexual attention : )
Find out what to do if you are using sex addictively – to avoid anxiety, take away stress, fill up emptiness, or get validated.
Love and connection addiction occurs when we believe that our feelings of worth and security come from others loving and connecting to us. This is called codependency – being dependent upon others for our sense of worth and security. When we are love addicted, we use many forms of control to get the love we want.
Good articles for you to read and learn – to heal your self.
Here we can also read about :
“This article is about the fact that, unfortunately, many of our country’s leaders are motivated by their addictions to power, approval, sex, and control. Neither our government nor most big businesses are based on the spiritual principles of compassion and caring about the common good, leading to the hunger, homelessness, crime, health problems, and drug abuse and sexual addiction that are endemic to our society.”
And remember –
You ARE loved!
You ARE wanted!
You ARE important!
You are beautiful!
The sun is INSIDE of you – it radiates from within and through you;
we dont need to search for the warmth, love and energy from OTHERS to feed ourself, to nurture our self –
it is an illusion, and a divide and conquer strategy from the darkness in society, the ego, the narcissistic toxic addictive needs we are brainwashed with from corporations and lost ideals – so that we will be good consumers and buy more products and services, and give our power and money away to those that wanna feed and make wealth out of OUR misery and discomfort..
Dont give your power away, dont let others manipulate and control you and your life –
YOU ARE THE MASTER OF YOUR LIFE – you have the control, the key and the answer within YOU.
Remember your TRUE self, underneith all those shieldings, roles you play and layers created though this experience in materia.
Become aware… the force IS with in YOU..
Love and Light
Sunnely, you are amazing. 🙂 Thanks for this great blog. I know I grew up VERY addicted to approval and that is how I was raised. To be what every one else wanted, and do what everyone else wanted.
I actually went through a great amount of healing on the topic just two days ago. I realized that my life would be dramatically different if I had actually been the author of my own life.
So much of my childhood is a blur because it happened to me instead of by me. So I just didn’t care to pay attention to it. I was just tying to get it all over with so that somewhere in the future I could maybe have a chance to do something I wanted.
It was a huge thing to realize that only in the last 7 yrs or so have I finally begun to make choices based upon what is right for me instead of others.
It’s been a gradual process, but VERY refreshing and liberating! FREEDOM! To be who I REALLY am. It’s wonderful, and releaving. ahhhhh
Thanks again, beautiful lady, for this wonderful post!